Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda
Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda,
I have had too many of these moments that I’d like to admit for 2018. How about you? But guess what? They make me work “smarter” for next year. I say smarter because they have nothing to do with how hard I worked. I kicked butt in that department. However, there were some things that I shoulda, woulda, coulda done to have accomplished even bigger results in 2018.
The past can be one of our best teachers if we acknowledge our mistakes or shortcomings and create a plan to overcome them. The worst thing to do is keep trying without changing your course of action. “The definition of Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” An equally serious mistake would be to focus on those shortcomings or the things you really don’t want to happen. When you focus on the things you truly don’t want, the negative thoughts can just continue to sabotage your success! Instead, create a plan to overcome them and focus on the positive.
My Equi-Energy Gems bracelet is already helping me to get some of these puzzle pieces into place for 2019. Since you can constantly “recharge” your bracelet and update the “movie” that it plays in your mind’s eye, you can continue to refine your goals and course of action. Turn your shoulda, woulda, couldas into I did! 2019…bring it on!